Here's a helpful blog post on the difference between hospitality and entertaining - and why hospitality is so much more 'gospel shaped'. Here's a taster:
Entertaining is always thinking about the next course. Hospitality burns the rolls because it was listening to a story.
Entertaining obsesses over what went wrong. Hospitality savors what was shared.
Entertaining, exhausted, says “It was nothing, really!” Hospitality thinks it was nothing. Really.
Entertaining seeks to impress. Hospitality seeks to bless.
Read the whole thing here.