On Sunday I mentioned a new book by Tim and Kathy Keller that is just out and I'd found really helpful in grasping what submission (Colossians 3:18) does and doesn't involve. One of the best things about the sections I've read, is that they are written from a woman's perspective on this issue - Kathy Keller contributes the chapter on Embracing the Other and an incredibly helpful appendix entitled Decision Making and Gender Roles.
Wonderfully our friends at 10ofthose have the book reduced and are offering free postage too! Order your copy here.